kristeeuh-muhreez:

They’re so easily manipulated. Their boyfriend says they’ll dump them if they don’t have sex, and what does the girl do? She gives in and does it. I hate seeing this shit. These girls don’t need these guys, but they still do anything to be with them. They need to learn how to stand up, and say no. Don’t fall for that, “I love you, you’re the only one for me” shit right after he asks you to do it. He’s saying it just so you can give in. Having sex does not make you cool. If you know for a fact that you’re not ready, don’t fucking do it. If he leaves you, he never really loved you.  Get a clue. That’s the truth and you shouldn’t blame anything on yourself. Just be patient and wait. All guys are not the same, and I’m sure you’ll find someone who’ll treat you the way you deserve to be treated and he’ll wait until you’re ready. Don’t sell yourself short and settle for less. You deserve better.